The Art of Making Love - Chelom Leavitt

Lovemaking or having sex is an intimate act between couples. Each individual brings to the relationship their unique attitudes about sex, and their definition of lovemaking has been greatly influenced and shaped by their life experiences. Most of the time, being an uncomfortable topic, sex is still considered taboo in many cultures. People feel embarrassed about their bodies resulting in creating a feeling of sexual shame in them. Despite these dark perceptions, kindness in relationship is of utmost importance to have a healthy and happy bond with your partner.  

Sexually satisfied couples are emotionally attuned to each other inside as well as outside of the bedroom. In order to avoid conflict intimacy with your partner, the key is for both the partners to support and value their friendship. Mindfulness is yet another element that helps slow down your thoughts and clears space in mind to pay attention to emotions. Being mindful helps us to be less critical of what we feel and enjoy pleasurable moments. It also helps us to pay attention to our partner's emotions and not rush through blissful emotional experiences. 

Go through these tips to understand the art of making love and having sex more romantically in your relationship.

Ø Re-define Sex

By re-defining sex, you can make your physical relationship more powerful with your partner. By not stressing out and just enjoying the pleasures, you can create an understanding and intimate bond with your partner. By not being stressed about having an orgasm makes it easier to have one. Great sex is the outcome of having a created connection with your partner.

Ø Pleasure is the by-product of active actions.

In order to master the lovemaking process, it is vital to have an open mind, activeness, and willingness to please your partner. Traditionally, a man plays a significant role during sex, but it does not mean that women are expected to behave as an elusive medieval homemaker. The urge to please your partner must have a common ground. 

Ø Show Initiative

Never treat lovemaking as a part of your monotonous routine. Always initiate the lovemaking process and make sure to remember that there is no place for indifference in bed. Feel excited and make your sex creative by trying new things.

Ø Pay Attention

Due to irreconcilable differences, most of the marriages and relationships die. In order to thrive, every relationship needs ongoing maintenance. When going on a romantic getaway, constantly making your partner feel loved and paying attention to whatever they say and do is crucial. Taking some time out to be alone with your partner will make it stronger. Relationships thrive when given adequate attention.

Ø Address issues when they come; don't wait until later

If you wait until you feel like dealing with problems is not a good idea. The more you wait, the more that issue gets complicated. They get harder to resolve. While breakdowns and disappointments are inevitable in a relationship, they do not always end up leading to trouble. In order to pursue a healthy and smooth relationship, it is vital to acknowledge and address difficulties early on rather than waiting for things to get worse.

Ø Take care of yourself

The best thing you can give your partner is your own well-being. The more happy, healthy, and fit you are, the more you have to offer. Taking care of yourself is not limited to healthy eating and exercising; it also includes the responsibility to know what nourishes your soul and spirit. By taking good care of yourself, your partner will automatically feel happy and stress-free.

Ø Learn to appreciate the differences 

Having differences in a relationship is inevitable. You and your partner are different personalities, but they still have something to offer those other lacks. These differences can change into a conflict within a fraction of seconds, but if you start to appreciate these differences, it gives you yet another reason to like your partner.

Takeaways!

The art of lovemaking begins and ends on the eternal bond you share with your partner. You are being mindful while sex is the key notion to a happy and soulful relationship. By focusing on your partner's needs and paying attention to them, you can share a pleasurable lovemaking experience.

Location: Orem, UT, USA

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