The Art of Making Love - Chelom Leavitt
Sexually satisfied couples are
emotionally attuned to each other inside as well as outside of the bedroom. In
order to avoid conflict
intimacy with your partner, the key is for both the partners to support
and value their friendship. Mindfulness is yet another element that helps slow
down your thoughts and clears space in mind to pay attention to emotions. Being
mindful helps us to be less critical of what we feel and enjoy pleasurable
moments. It also helps us to pay attention to our partner's emotions and not
rush through blissful emotional experiences.
Go through these tips to understand
the art of making love and having sex more romantically in your relationship.
Ø Re-define Sex
By re-defining sex, you can make your
physical relationship more powerful with your partner. By not stressing out and
just enjoying the pleasures, you can create an understanding and intimate bond
with your partner. By not being stressed about having an orgasm makes it easier
to have one. Great sex is the outcome of having a created connection with your
partner.
Ø Pleasure is the by-product
of active actions.
In order to master the lovemaking
process, it is vital to have an open mind, activeness, and willingness to
please your partner. Traditionally, a man plays a significant role during sex,
but it does not mean that women are expected to behave as an elusive medieval
homemaker. The urge to please your partner must have a common ground.
Ø Show Initiative
Never treat lovemaking as a part of
your monotonous routine. Always initiate the lovemaking process and make sure
to remember that there is no place for indifference in bed. Feel excited and
make your sex creative by trying new things.
Ø Pay Attention
Due to irreconcilable differences,
most of the marriages and relationships die. In order to thrive, every
relationship needs ongoing maintenance. When going on a romantic getaway,
constantly making your partner feel loved and paying attention to whatever they
say and do is crucial. Taking some time out to be alone with your partner will
make it stronger. Relationships thrive when given adequate attention.
Ø Address issues when they
come; don't wait until later
If you wait until you feel like
dealing with problems is not a good idea. The more you wait, the more that
issue gets complicated. They get harder to resolve. While breakdowns and
disappointments are inevitable in a relationship, they do not always end up
leading to trouble. In order to pursue a healthy and smooth relationship, it is
vital to acknowledge and address difficulties early on rather than waiting for
things to get worse.
Ø Take care of yourself
The best thing you can give your
partner is your own well-being. The more happy, healthy, and fit you are, the
more you have to offer. Taking care of yourself is not limited to healthy
eating and exercising; it also includes the responsibility to know what
nourishes your soul and spirit. By taking good care of yourself, your partner
will automatically feel happy and stress-free.
Ø Learn to appreciate the
differences
Having differences in a relationship
is inevitable. You and your partner are different personalities, but they still
have something to offer those other lacks. These differences can change into a
conflict within a fraction of seconds, but if you start to appreciate these
differences, it gives you yet another reason to like your partner.
Takeaways!
The art of lovemaking begins and ends
on the eternal bond you share with your partner. You are being mindful while
sex is the key notion to a happy and soulful relationship. By focusing on your
partner's needs and paying attention to them, you can share a pleasurable
lovemaking experience.
